WHAT THE BIBLE TELLS US ABOUT LONELINESS

Original meeting date - November 28th, 2025

Loneliness is something that affects people even more deeply over the holidays, whether they’re surrounded by people or alone, as it's the feeling of lack of connection that hurts. For those of us with mood disorders it can be even more challenging, as we often feel misunderstood or unworthy of friendship. Let’s chat a little about what our Christmas season may look like for us this year.

I wanted to share with everyone this devotional I found by Marcus Point Baptist Church. I hope it gives you comfort and encouragement. “Loneliness is a deeply human experience that affects people across all walks of life. Whether it's due to physical isolation, emotional disconnection, or spiritual emptiness, the feeling of being alone can be overwhelming. However, the Bible offers wisdom and comfort for those struggling with loneliness, providing both solace and a path toward meaningful connection.

1. Understanding Loneliness in the Biblical Context

The Bible acknowledges loneliness as a part of the human experience. Even in the beginning, God recognized that "it is not good for man to be alone" (Genesis 2:18). Throughout Scripture, we see individuals like David, Elijah, and Job wrestling with feelings of isolation and despair. These stories remind us that loneliness is not a new or uncommon struggle; it has been part of the human condition since the beginning.

2. God's Presence in Times of Loneliness

One of the most reassuring promises in the Bible is God's constant presence. Psalm 23:4 declares, "Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me." This verse, among others, emphasizes that we are never truly alone, even in our darkest moments. God's presence is a source of comfort and strength, offering a refuge when we feel isolated.

3. Prayer and Meditation on Scripture

Prayer is a powerful tool for combating loneliness. It allows us to pour out our hearts to God, knowing that He listens and cares. Philippians 4:6-7 encourages us to "not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." Through prayer, we can seek God's guidance, ask for His peace, and find reassurance in His promises. Meditating on Scripture also provides comfort. Verses like Isaiah 41:10—"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God"—remind us of God's unwavering support. Reflecting on these truths can help shift our focus from our feelings of loneliness to the reality of God's presence.

4. Community and Connection in the Church

The Bible emphasizes the importance of community. Hebrews 10:24-25 urges believers to "consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another." Engaging with a faith community can provide a support system, offering fellowship, encouragement, and a sense of belonging. Building relationships within the church can help combat feelings of loneliness. Small groups, Bible studies, and service opportunities are all ways to connect with others and form meaningful relationships. The church is not just a place of worship but a family where we can find companionship and support.

5. Serving Others as a Remedy for Loneliness

The Bible teaches that serving others can be a powerful antidote to loneliness. In Acts 20:35, Paul quotes Jesus, saying, "It is more blessed to give than to receive." When we shift our focus from our own loneliness to the needs of others, we can find purpose and fulfillment. Serving in the church, volunteering in the community, or simply offering a listening ear to someone in need can create connections and alleviate feelings of isolation.

Conclusion

Loneliness is a difficult and painful experience, but the Bible offers hope and guidance for overcoming it. By relying on God's presence, engaging in prayer and Scripture, connecting with a faith community, and serving others, we can find comfort and companionship even in our loneliest moments. The Bible reminds us that we are never truly alone—God is always with us, and He has provided a path to meaningful connection and fulfillment.” As we move into our worship song, I hope the words comfort and challenge us all to run to the father, again and again.

Run to the Father

I've carried a burden for too long on my own

I wasn't created to bear it alone

I hear Your invitation to let it all go

I see it now, I'm laying it down

And I know that I need You

Chorus

I run to the Father I fall into grace

I'm done with the hiding no reason to wait

My heart needs a surgeon my soul needs a friend

So I'll run to the Father again and again

And again and again

Oh, oh, oh

You saw my condition had a plan from the start

Your Son for redemption the price for my heart

And I don't have a context for that kind of love

I don't understand I can't comprehend

All I know is I need You

Go to chorus

Oh, oh

Again and again

And again and again

Oh, oh (oh)

My heart has been in Your sights long before my first breath

Running into Your arms is running to life from death

And I feel this rush deep in my chest your mercy is calling out

Just as I am You pull me in and I know I need You now

Chorus x2

Oh, oh

Again and again

And again and again

Oh, oh, oh

Again and again